I just downloaded: Coccinella Messenger-0.96.18.exe
And when I try to connect to my jabber server, I get:
Cannot connect to MYSERVER.com. Either there are server or network issues, or you misspelled the server's name.
Error: The connection failed or droped later: error writing "sock2936": socket is not connected.
What could I possibly be doing wrong?
I do note that my system sees it trying to access 18.104.22.168/UDP:3478. I blocked that, because I don't see why it should be connecting to anything but my server.